Here it seems to depend on the topic - discussions surrounding how to get the most tokens/$ are positive with most offering ideas on how to improve their workflows. Topics that invite discussion about big labs' hypocrisy regarding IP theft/copyright infringement and attempts at regulatory capture or rent seeking behavior are more negative.

These topics attract different people, but same people can hold the two views that aren't necessarily in conflict - I am forced to use LLMs at work, and within the industry there is no alternative. I also derive a lot of benefit using it for personal projects. I would also be very wary of monetizing any of these personal projects due to being completely blind as to how/where the code used to train the models came from.. and I am surprised how slow the legal system has been to address this issue, it's the wild west at the moment.