You need to reflect on your motivations here. You are boiling down morality to one simple aspect but is that what the OP was even saying? If not, then you are adding that additional context I mentioned. I can recognize that a behavior is immoral and still say I’m unsure about the morality of the situation, especially about the morality of what to do about it. Meanwhile, you feel sorry for people because of a situation that exists only in your own mind.