points by sevenzero 4 days ago | 0 comments
My fear is mostly shame to be honest. Never had an issue with gay stuff as I kissed my homies on the cheek before
[–] david-gpu 4 days ago
Shame of what? From whom? GI doctors and their teams do this all day long. And nobody sane is going to shame you for following a medical procedure.
It really is not a big deal to go through it.
[–] SpecialistK 3 days ago
> GI doctors and their teams do this all day long.
I've had an extended conversation about this with an ER nurse friend, in which I reminded her that although the staff go through the gamut all day every day and it's normal for them, the patient (hopefully) does not and whatever procedure(s) are new and scary.
Add in the fact that (sexualized) abuse and med students using anesthetized patients for training without explicit consent is more common in the medical field than any of us would like, and people having concerns strong enough to avoid treatment sounds pretty reasonable to me.
"we see this all the time" may settle a few concerns, but it makes others (such as the power imbalance) worse.
[–] BigTTYGothGF 4 days ago
[–] strictnein 3 days ago
Same with if you get snipped. I didn't realize that "shaved" meant with a safety razor and I just trimmed with a beard trimmer. I ended up having two younger women give me a proper shave as I laid there, which was about the dumbest I ever felt in my entire life. Made for a great story for my friends though.